Your neverending desire for non-attachment

Non-attachment, sounds cool doesn't it. Yet we live in a world of things, of time and space, which are things. So get used to attachment, coz it's who we are. We are 'attachlings' lol.

Funny as it may at first seem, the desire for non-attachment actually causes us to be more attached to things. Whereas the desire and allowance of attachment fulfills the notion of non-attachment.

Allow me to explain the above in more detail.

Let us say that you have manifested something you have wanted for some time. Congratulations on being a masterful conscious deliberate creator. Now once you have that thing, the next thought may well be one of thinking that you are becoming attached to that thing. However that thought only arises because you are not continuing on your path to more things. You are so appreciative of having what you have wanted for a long time. You are in such self-appreciation for finally seeing yourself (via the manifestations that indicate it) as being the allower that you truly are, that you are in such relief that you want to savour this manifestation for a long time.

However life keeps moving on, desires continue to be born, and even what has been in your Vortex for a long time has not even begun to reveal itself fully as yet. So, yes you may well have manifested, for example, a perfect relationship, but there are so many other experiences and things yet to manifest that are a result of the same vibrational level that created the perfect relationship.

So, even though you have created and allowed the perfect relationship, the thoughts of being concerned about being attached to your new partner, is resisting these other manifestations that are literally weighing down heavly to flood into your experience. Therefore you feel any resistance now more than you ever did. And so it is now more important than ever to be in an allowing state, if you wish to continue to feel good.

How do we do that?

We allow, as always. That's obvious, you know that already. The question is, how specifically. Well we have identified that the resistance has come from the concern about being attached to your new partner. You may be having thoughts of dependency, which is similar in nature to having thoughts of attachment.

How you do that. Well how you do that is basically a consequence of continuing to move forward.
Before I came to this insight I am describing now, I was in the above situation where I was in the perfect relationship, but I was concerned about being dependent on/attached to that person. Yet I had to continue onwards, because my frequency is so high these days that to not go with my flow feels so off to me that I cannot stand it for long at all. So as I went with that, knowing that I cannot get it wrong, the insight came to me (oh flex is finally getting to it, they all cheer! :D ). Yes, the insight that came to me....

....drumroll.... :D

was this: oh I just realised I already stated this insight at the start of the blog. lol, oh well you continued reading, so I'll say it again!

As you go with the flow and attract more and more things, you are no longer attached to one thing. As you allow more and more relationships, and more and more things, you become less attached to any one particular thing, because you have choice. After all, choice is non-attachment defined. The whole premise of choice is that you are non-attached to any of the choices in the first place, even though you may be 'attached' or 'involved' with one of the choices in the first place. So I can be living in one place 'involved' in, yet have the choice to stay where I physically currently reside, or move to another place. If I decide to move to the other place, and also keep the place I was originally at (I expand) then now I am more non-attached than I was before I expanded, as the ability to choose becomes clearer.

Abraham Hicks says that when we are aligned, we will hook up with everything. Now you know how to handle the thoughts of attachment, and that the more you are attached (up to manifestational level) to things and relationships and anything else, the more non-attached to anything you become. Now you know that, you can confidently continue on in your flow, for eternity.

Unless of course, you already knew all of that, because like me, you just couldn't stand not feeling good in the first place. Oh well, these manifestations and manifestational insights are still fun hey, even if they are old news.

Thanks! :D